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August 5, 2008

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The Legacy of a Leader

by Glenn Shepard

 

 

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If you've got time to lean, you've got

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Dear Glenn,

       I am a member of your Priority Club and have a question. I have some employees that are very poor at problem solving.

     I am trying to develop that skill in them.  Is there a book you could recommend to help me teach them steps in problem solving?

Michelle in Mobile, AL

 

Dear Michelle,

Not a book, but a method I teach. There's not enough room to explain it in this column, so here's the abbreviated version. 

         It's basic instinct for parents to solve their kids' problems, and managers to solve their employees' problems.

          But the best managers empower their employees by leading them through solving problems on their own, just as good parents empower their kids to make smart decisions when Mom or Dad aren't around.

           This can only be achieved with practice under supervision. The method I teach is called "The Path of Least Resistance". Listen to this week's Priority Club CD for the step by step explanation.

     Thanks for your question.

Glenn In Nashville

 

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Last week I did a phone interview with Dan Mulhern, for a radio talk show called "Everyday Leadership". Because it was originally  coordinated through my publisher in New York City, I didn't realize at the time that Dan's wife is the governor of Michigan (talk about a tough place and time to be a leader).

 

As we were talking off air, he mentioned something he told an employee who didn't work out - "Don't leave a loss without a lesson".

 

His timing was perfect, because I had just  bid a very sad farewell to Dr. Howard Olds. He was the pastor of Brentwood United Methodist Church, and I've quoted him several times.

 

He was so adored that over 2,000 people attended his funeral, which is more than most country music stars get.

 

Back on February 17th, he preached a sermon titled “Strength in the Midst of Weakness”. I took notes as always, and wrote down these key points:

 

> “I always try to turn my personal struggles into something that is helpful to others”

 

> “To be weak is to be human”

 

> “Don’t ever let a struggle go to waste. Let it be a tool by which you help somebody else”

 

> “Stronger humans will always rise to the top and make decisions for the weak”

 

After the sermon, he announced that he would be stepping down on July 1 because his battle with cancer had not been “going the way he had planned”. He spent the next four months preparing everyone for the day when he would no longer be there, and titled his final sermon on June 29 “Don’t Stop”.

 

Though he was too humble to say it, Dr. Olds understood the great paradox that ultra-charismatic leaders like himself, Rick Warren, and Joel Osteen face in their business. Sometimes followers get so attached to the leader that this attachment overshadows the mission of the organization.

 

Part of Dr. Olds’ obituary in the local newspaper read, “Under his leadership, the church has refined its vision and purpose in Christ: to love one another radically, make disciples intentionally, serve the poor compassionately, and develop leaders humbly”.

 

He was smart enough to make it clear to everyone that the mission would not change after he was gone, and that we would be just fine without him. That last part was the only thing he ever said that I didn’t believe.

 

We will never be just fine without him. Nothing could possibly fill the hole that’s been ripped open right in the middle of my soul. No one can ever fill his shoes. And I don't believe anyone can ever ease the pain.

 

The only person that possibly could is Dr. Olds himself. Dan Mulhern was right about taking a lesson from loss, and I took a huge lesson from the loss of this leader I admired so much.

 

When real leaders leave us, they don’t stop leading. This is because leaders derive their power from influence, and their influence lasts long after their departure.

 

When I read that Dr. Olds had requested that donations be made to endow a scholarship fund at a small Kentucky college in lieu of flowers, I whipped out the checkbook to support his mission, though I'd never heard of the college.

 

When I told my beautiful bride that I didn’t feel like attending church after Dr. Olds’ passing, she responded, “He’d be disappointed in you if you didn’t go.” We went.

 

And, I just bared my soul to you by sharing something far more personal than I wanted to share, because of two things Dr. Olds said on back on February 17th:

 

“To be weak is to be human” and “Don’t ever let a struggle go to waste. Let it be a tool by which you help somebody else” .

 

Leaders may leave us, but their effectiveness as a leader lives on forever.

 

To Your Success,

 

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